I kept trying to find something I could argue with but I couldn’t. Not at all what I expected. Well done.

I took away from the presentation a good sense of what it means for genders to be equal rather than just women side with women and men side with men. I wish there were more people in attendance, I feel as if every college student should see this presentation.

I think that this was a successful speech because they were able to relate it to everyday life and they made it interesting and did not just give facts and statistics that don’t have an impact on most people’s lives. I am now more educated about the oppression faced by not only women but also the men within society and how this oppression of people will not end until we, as individuals, stop the prejudice of other people.

Upon arriving to the presentation, I had my expectations of what it would be like. I assumed that it was going to be geared towards oppression of women in the work place, home, and in general. After about ten minutes into the show, I realized that I was very wrong…

The presentation was extremely interesting and very eye opening to me… This shocked me so much and it took me a while to wrap my head around. I never thought of men’s feelings like that and that if a man wanted to show how they actually felt, they would be ridiculed for it. That’s awful, when I start to think more and more about it.

It was an interesting presentation in that it was not a typical way of discussing equal rights between genders; instead the presenters discussed equal rights for men and women rather than just discussing how some men oppress women. It was an interesting spin on the topic. I thoroughly enjoyed the presentation and it opened my eyes to the struggles both men and women face in efforts to find their own identities.

This was an extremely eye opening presentation for me to go to and I though it brought up a bunch of well thought out ideas. I highly recommend this presentation comes back to St. Bonas and I think more students should be forced to go to this.

Christina and Mike made it evident that equality should not be the flip of inequality. Equality should not be reversing the roles between the sexes… By seeing how men feel and why they do or do not show certain feelings helped me understand different aspects about men. The main thing I got out of this talk is that not all men are bad and that women should not assume that they are bad.

The day before, I had gotten into a very big fight with my father about how I did not think he cared about me. Once I saw this presentation, it just all made sense. Ever since I spoke to my dad about how I felt, he has made a huge effort and has called me practically 3 times a day. I wish I would have been more aware of the differences between men and women earlier in my life.

The presentation helped me to understand that problems with sexism are not just male vs. female. The male population of today is expected to act certain ways that society tells us to, and if we do not abide, we are ostracized. The same situation goes with females as well.

Christina and Mike have been collaborators for quite some time. They work well together and their distinct perspectives bring balance and insight to their book. Beyond The Divide comes to us from passion, the pursuit of understanding, and years of real life experience in corporate, educational and spiritual settings.

Very interesting. It brought up some ideas and provoked me to think about sexism in a different way. I was expecting the cookie-cutter feministic view of sexism, but I was pleasantly surprised with what actually was presented…

Beyond the Divide accurately depicts some of the issues that are rooted in the socialization of men and women. The recommendations for change are well thought out and are attainable. As a licensed healthcare professional, I find this book to be an excellent teaching tool.

Before arriving to the presentation, I had thought of only attending it for the extra credit but after sitting through the presentation I found myself very interested in the topic. I assumed that it was going to be shifted more towards the oppression of women in the work place and in general. After a while, I realized that I was completely wrong.

Since the presentation, I have paid more attention to the men around me and whether or not they were thoughtful. Fortunately, many of them have been; which makes me feel a little safer in my environment. In return, I have made a conscious effort to be more thoughtful to those around me as well.

Today’s workplaces and classrooms are a powder keg and our preconceived notions of gender are the match. In ‘Beyond the Divide’, Marvin and Lopez defuse the situation by giving us a safe zone to explore what life looks like through the eyes of the opposite sex. A must read for anyone who has ever griped that there’s no ‘instruction manual’ for the opposite sex.

It was a very interesting presentation because it was not a typical way of discussing equal rights between genders, instead it discussed equal rights for men and women rather than just women.

I've been married for 40 years and now understand the things I have "tolerated" are valuable for me to learn. Who knew?

I really liked the presentation and it was eye opening to see the struggles both men and women face in efforts to find their own identities.

I think this was very productive for the group to discuss because I have always felt that men are never really able to show their true selves. We have been programmed by our surroundings and upbringing to know that there are certain things, even if we feel them, that we cannot discuss or keep to ourselves.

A refreshing approach and a call to higher standards… This was an insightful approach and focus on strengths with easy solutions and practices that build instead of blame. Examples clearly illustrate fresh concepts. This is a must read for anyone who wants a positive, proactive, powerful environment conducive to collaboration, understanding, and the ideal combination for productivity!

This book is really one of the only places I’ve seen the subject approached in a way that makes sense to me, and actually seems serviceable in the real world. Of course, that’s not surprising, as Mike and Christina have spent years talking to real people, holding seminars, and getting feedback to refine their approach. As with any project in the technical realm, iteration and continuous improvement is the key to success.

I enjoyed their speech and encourage others to go to it. I understand more now that both genders need to remain positive and that both can learn from one another and grow together. =